Do you really ever know someone? You think you have gotten to know them pretty well by spending time with them talking to them sharing stuff with them to turn around and realize you really don't have a clue who they are . You find out there totally someone different than who they show you they are.
They talk about being honest and upfront about who they are and what they want , sometimes they say there to honest. than in the end you get a big shocker they weren't anything close to what or who you thought they were . It was all a big act .
So it all comes to a end. but in the end your left wondering what did I do wrong , what could I have done differently? but in reality you didn't do anything wrong at all it was totally them. there the ones with the problem and the issues. You feel like you really have lost something but it's really them who is losing out . There the one losing out on a good woman to be by there side and love them.
But they'd rather play however many woman they can , see how many they can sleep with and keep on a string for when they want you.
well I don't hate those of you who are that kind of man I pitty you and feel sorry for you. you have some real issues to over come and alot of growing up to do.
One day you will finally meet the one who you fall in love with and want to marry, but guess what it may just come back to bite you in the ass . what comes around goes around. you will get yours back.. life goes in a circle.
So in reality you did me a favor now by letting the real man show or should I say boy.. reguardless man or boy all I can say now is thanks for showing your true colors ...
I see so many people being hurt in today’s dating world. When anyone, male or female, is living a life of fast relationships and flaming hot passions, there is always the danger of that relationship being short lived. Typically, SOMEONE in this type of relationship, if emotional feelings have developed, will experience some degree of hurt feelings- often very painful ones. Emotions have no intellect and follow whatever is being feed them, whether based in truth or falsehood. The law of logistics within these types of relationships will most likely reveal itself in time.
Behavior that enhances the development of premature and baseless emotions in any relationship will most likely be lopsided, to say the least. This type of relationship often spirals faster and faster like a coin coming to an end of its spin. Have you ever seen a child loose their grip and fall off of a merry-go-round because of the centrifugal force? Don’t be surprised to see a similar incident if you haven’t REALLY gotten to KNOW a person (firm grip) based in reality BEFORE you engage in behavior that fosters emotional growth. The greatest obvious remedy would be simply to slow down in future relationships if your desire is to land a long term, healthy relationship. It’s really hard to take the right path at times. But hindsight has its wisdom too. And if we fail to examine our behavior we may be condemning it to an unwanted repeat.
By the way, let me emphasize that I didn't mean to imply that you are a loose canon... That would be like my calling the kettle black. I personally can't condemn or judge anyone. Just trying to share my two cents.
I believe you met my ex lol. I believe when you meet someone they are giving you their resume. As though they are selling themselves to you. I mean no one says when the meet someone "hey by the way I am a narcissistic, bipolar, cheater, and a pathological liar". Unfortunately its only after you fall head over heels for their "wonderful side" before you get to see red flags. The best thing that I can thank my ex for is for leaving me. I kept thinking it was me and I could fix things...but he kept changing and I didn't know who he was. Hell for that matter I didn't know who I was anymore! I say you can see the disorder come out when someone is drunk LOL. Seriously, its usually an easy way to see what demons they have inside. I learned real quick when my ex got drunk. He wasn't an alcoholic, but he couldn't hide who he really was when he was inhibited like that.
I believe you met my ex lol. I believe when you meet someone they are giving you their resume. As though they are selling themselves to you. I mean no one says when the meet someone "hey by the way I am a narcissistic, bipolar, cheater, and a pathological liar". Unfortunately its only after you fall head over heels for their "wonderful side" before you get to see red flags. The best thing that I can thank my ex for is for leaving me. I kept thinking it was me and I could fix things...but he kept changing and I didn't know who he was. Hell for that matter I didn't know who I was anymore! I say you can see the disorder come out when someone is drunk LOL. Seriously, its usually an easy way to see what demons they have inside. I learned real quick when my ex got drunk. He wasn't an alcoholic, but he couldn't hide who he really was when he was inhibited like that.
I don't think we can ever truly know anyone. People change but not necesarily for the better. They are are selfish, scared, and insecure and put it off as ego and take their insecurities out on us that want to heal their hearts and love them. Then they walk away.
Just remember Karma is a bitch, and she's a woman, and he'll get his
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