and you were frequently involved with an online forum...would you want the details of your death posted for everyone to see?
I believe I would. I think some will say no because they don't want a big deal made of it and I agree, but when you know and talk to a lot of the forum people in "real life" and many have been in your home and vice versa, it seems like you'd want them to know the facts.
Anyone out there who knows what I'm talking about, I'm truly sorry for your loss and I respect that the family doesn't want anything posted, but is that what he would've wanted?