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MAR
16
2010
What's Wrong With Dating White Men?... :)
Tue @ 7:46 pm
News Channel: love & relationships
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Why are some black women opposed to dating white men?...

It's all i've ever dated....

I love white men... everything about then turn me on.... the way they

touch... the way they look... the way they express themselves... their

hair... eyes... lips... lol... the fact is that.... I LOVE WHITE

MEN!!!... I really do!.. even though I haven't been dating because

i've been sooo busy helping my kids and spending time with my

grandkids... mostly for the last 4-1/2 years... because i've babysat

for 13 years!... but now my status have changed... and... i think i'm

ready to share a part of my life with someone that's really special...:}



But that doesn't mean that i will date just any white man... Just

because he's white...Why do some white men figure u should just settle

for them because they tell u that they like u and want to meet u...

it's like they're saying... "Well... I'm white"... lol... Well... good

for u....:)


Moving on.....:)

There's a certain kind of man that turns me on... And i feel that he's

soooo close!...

Maybe a walk in the park...

A Museum Outing.....

An Art Show .... or a profile away... :}


And one day i'm hopeing he will find me..... :}

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     -Whipz-   wed mar 17 2010 at 10:01 am         · 
true love is colorblind.
     tennesseeheat   thu mar 18 2010 at 3:28 am         · 
Well said Annie!!!
     Lady_Raclusa   thu mar 18 2010 at 9:23 pm         · 
you like what you like honey, no one can fault you for that. if they try, fuck them and fuck that too!

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MAR
9
2010
What I'm Looking For... In A Partner...
Tue @ 6:24 am
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Someone who is honest... that really knows how to take care of himself... his heart should be kind, compassionate,and gentle..

Someone who believes in hard work to make his way... and not have it handed to him on a platter....An achiever... Someone who stick to his goals...


He must like to go have picnics,go to the movies,

I love the arts.... I've visited the museumn in Louisville Kentucky (where i grew up) many a times...And the art gallery...

I like old black & white films....and foreign films!...
walking in the park... by the water.... or down Bardstown Rd and visiting all the stores ... coffee shops... and listening to live music...:}

Eating in or out.. just anywhere with the man that i adore would be a plus... And... i've never felt that way about a man before... like it was something so special...



And Music?...lol... I am a songwriter u know...lol... a better Songwriter and Poet than singer... though i do try from time to time..:}

I'm not in any rush to just settle either,i've done that twice and i don't want to ever do that again...I promised myself that i would never just settle again.. its important for me to develop something with someone worth giving my love and attention to... :}

I'm looking for someone that can accept me for who i am.... the good... with the not so bad.... but mostly... i'm looking for my very bestest friend..:}

Someone that will laugh with me when i'm happy..that will comfort me when i'm sad...that will be silly just to be silly with me... and someone who's eyes i could definately get lost in... :}

Someone... that... just sitting near him... would be as two magnets being near each other!...:}

I'm a little shy to start... but... if the sexual chemistry is present then it will be hard to resist u!...( I'm hopeing that u have that kind of chemistry...:}..


Someone....that would enjoy soft slow kisses.... holding hands.... or... after we've got to know one another... someone who would make love to me and truly enjoy the experience of it... not just to make love for the sake of making love....because making love is something very spiritual and private...and should only be shared after you've really become familiar with each other on all personal levels... it's a commitment to that person that ur love is exclusive... and that's a great and wonderful feeling...:}

Someone i can praise when he's achieved his goals... and hold and tell him it's alright when he fails... and remind him to never give in or up...and...to keep pushing forward...because i believe in him.. :}

I think this would be my perfect partner!... :}

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MAR
7
2010
How Many Of The 34 Who Tested Positive For AIDS Are On Mojo?
Sun @ 9:54 pm
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I heard there are now 34 victims with AIDS... 34!!!..
Does anyone know how many of them are from Louisville... and how many of these women are dating here on Mojo?...(chances are u or I will never know!!!..)

What's wrong with taking ur time to get to know one another?
I've been alone too long... I would love to meet someone and fall in love...
I like sex... who doesn't?... but to be careless with ur life like this... to throw it all away in one night because of impulses... is inexcusable!

People should really get to know one another before they "go there"...

My sister told me there were 34 women that tested positive for aids and he had said that they slept with him right after meeting him... that same night and he felt no remorse for them at all because they were all hoes...

I'm wondering how many of these women are from the Louisville area, and, how many of these women are on Mojo?

There is so much "Free Love" here on Mojo... in most cases i've seen guys join the posse of ten or more women a day... and god knows what's going on...

I've been single for a long time partly for these reasons... I don't want to die because some guy that's dating me decides to "hook up" with one of these girls and decide to let her give him head or vice-versa... or have sex without a condom... I enjoy living...

Some girls fight over guys on here like he's a piece of meat... and some guys treat girls on here like she's a piece of meat...

It's really sad... I don't know what else to say about it except all should try to start off as being friends... and base their relationship on more than just a hook up or great sex...

( I'll probably write more later)

Annie..

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FEB
23
2010
Trying To Answer A Friend's Question On Why Women Date Losers
Tue @ 10:33 am
News Channel: love & relationships      Category: Just Venting!!!!!...:}
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I was just reading a friend's profile and i've come across the

question before... and i've thought about it...

and i wanted to see if i could shed some light on it...


The question was......



Q: Wondering why beautiful, intelligent women date losers, abusers,

liars, idiots, fakers, and the mentally ill.

And he continued....

Seriously, why is it that women are so attracted to scumbags?

Is it a maternal thing? Bad judgment? Or just low self-esteem?



Being a woman/mother/grandmother... I know for a fact that a lot of

people didn't want to end up the way that they have...


I've personally met people who never had a chance ... from the time

that they were born they were given an existence of poverty...


child abuse... abandonment... and ....

Prostitution...


They were taught that this way of life... was somehow ordained by God

himself... and that it was the only existence of life

that they would ever be accepted in... some had even been

taught to hate God for giving them this life/ existence....



When i've met these kind of people... i've tried to let them know that

their taught values were false .. and that they absolutely had a choice

in deciding what kind of contribute to society that they were going to

be....



I've let them know that nothing in their life is written in stone...

In their lives... i've always tried to make a difference....


Sometimes ... it takes a lot out of u to give sooo much to a person

that has never known any act of kindness...

that has never felt any form of love... that has never felt...

any convictions for wrong doing....that doesn't know how to give u any

type of respect...or love in return... and in response to that

... I expect absolutely nothing in return... :}


Selfless acts should be just that... selfless acts....


Yes... it's a sacrifice to love someone with everything that u are...

but.. in this world... sacrifices has to be made

to make changes... :}



It's... always easier for me to believe that a child's coming into

existence may sometimes had not been wanted...

or planned...


But in the end it was the given choice of the parent to have him or

her... and... in doing so...


that parent had decided at that very moment to give to that child...

especially for the first 18 years of their life selflessly...



Life situations change the outcome of the plan...And... a child...

being born into this sort of situation... where they can not control

their environment... brings a frustration that they don't really know

how to express... and sometimes that's kept inward

until they've found a way to create an outward outlet

for it... signs of this usually becomes apparent as a pre-teen or pre-

adult in signs of self mutilation disorders...

Animal mutilation disorders... and so on... until the end

results create a new type of creature... this is where our building


blocks of society as we know it fails...

and their building blocks of existence ...

And survival sets in... and it becomes set in stone for them...



I'm sure that some are not trying to cause harm to anyone... but, that

doesn't mean that i condone it... lol... not at all... :}


Q: "Is it a bad judgement?"...I don't think it's a bad judgement at

all...

Every woman reading this will KNOW it's a bad judgement!... :}

In most cases... we already know they are losers, abusers,

liars, idiots, fakers, mentally ill, and scumbags hiding in sheep

clothing...

Sometimes... it's our maternal instinct... our bad judgment... and...

their very low self-esteem that makes us love em and want to see them

excell and raise to great levels of achievements!!!


Because in every woman... is a maternal love.. and in seeing every

adult male... sometimes without knowing it.. we visualize that adult

male as a wounded spiritual being....

And../ or as a small child being... and our spirit wants to heal them...



Maybe we should be like the people that adbandon them .. and the rest

of society that judge them in the first place and throw them back in

the trash heap where they were left to decade in the first place ...


In conclusion....

Is it wrong?... Yes... sometimes it's wrong.... but...i believe... it

is our Jesus Spirit... The Christ in all of us...

Men... And Women...

that makes us recieve people... and except them the way

that they are... and .. want to change them for the better...


I agree that sometimes ... we need to let our common sense... and

concious set in...Of course that is...till it all gets sorted out... :}

Thank U For Reading My Opinion On This Question...

Sincerely...


Annie..:}

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     Chad36   tue feb 23 2010 at 3:55 pm         · 
AMEN ANNIE ... very well put ;)
     Dave Kelm   tue feb 23 2010 at 8:20 pm         · 
I appreciate the amount of thought you put into this.
     Annie...   tue feb 23 2010 at 8:30 pm         · 
Thank u Chad so much for the positive response and the kudo... I appreciate u reading it... and i appreciate u.. :}
     Annie...   tue feb 23 2010 at 8:32 pm         · 
And ... I would like to thank u Dave... for bringing forth the questions... I feel it's a very good topic for people to think about... :}
     why so serious   sun feb 28 2010 at 12:00 am         · 
i don't mean to be neagative in any way but, i feel this happens to men also. realationships start out sweet and then just end up souring before your very eyes. men also want the same things women do. sometimes:-) but i think most of the time it's the woman with the upper hand. i hope you understand. i just think it takes two on the same path. nice poem. later
     Annie...   sun feb 28 2010 at 2:49 am         · 
why so serious... I did mention:
In conclusion....

Is it wrong?... Yes... sometimes it's wrong.... but...i believe... it

is our Jesus Spirit... The Christ in all of us...

Men... And Women...

that makes us recieve people... and except them the way

that they are... and .. want to change them for the better...

And.. Why so serious... It's not a poem... It's only my prospective opinion...
But... anyway... i'm glad that u liked it...
Sincerely...
Annie..:}
     GuiltyByDesign   wed mar 03 2010 at 3:50 am         · 
I think that a lot of women end up with men like that, because they simply like the challange! They want to be the one that settles the bad boy down, I myself am even guilty of it. Being the compassionate person I am I found myself seeing guys who had major issues because I thought that I could help them. In reality though you can't help somebody that isn't wanting to make the effort to help themselves, and some people are okay with not living to their full potential!
     why so serious   wed mar 03 2010 at 6:59 pm         · 
so true guitybydesign, also some bad boy think finding a good girl will slow them down also

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