Unadulterated advice... it's exactly what it says and worth exactly what it costs: priceless. "Team Un" will attempt to bring you up to four perspectives on any problem or question you may have. We will give you our insights and opinions but what you do with them is your business! We will not shy away from the tough questions or silly ones either, but it is up to our team to decide what we will and won't answer, and the manner in which we answer. We are not responsible for anything you do with our advice, read it at your own risk, punks!
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The next desperate move?
(11/09/09)
Okay, it has become painfully obvious that posting a thread to garner attention from the fairer sex here is...shall we say...a form of sado-masachism. Therefore, this request from the incredible team of the extra large brain trust referred to as the...
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I'm not sure about my sexual preference
(11/04/09)
I'm really unsure what to say when someone asks me my sexual preference. In fact, I wonder about it myself.
I tend to have one-night stands with men, although the flings are few and far between-- maybe once every two or three years-- but I fall d...
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Can I or should I be mad when I catch my husband watching porno and/or masterbating?
(10/22/09)
I just went through the history on the computer to check up on my son but I found my husbands crap instead. I don't know weather to tell him to pack his bags, hit him upside the head, or ignore it. Is that what MARRIED men do when they are bored or i...
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I flirted with other sites...
(11/06/09)
...now I want Mojo to take me back. What should I do, send flowers?
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Are ALL men addicted to porn?
(10/19/09)
So I'm on my husband's computer to find an email address I needed and when I hit the drop-down menu,it was saturated with porn sites! Appalled, I clicked on the "most visited" button and it too, was saturated with another different list of porn sites...
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on the blacklisting
(10/13/09)
i received a hotbox and was polite in telling her i was not interested in married women. Now i am blacklisted by her along with over 100 others. Not a big deal but just wondering...like a clean slate
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When is it too soon to get into a LTR after a divorce?
(10/11/09)
I have been divorced now for 4 months and I feel that I am ready to get into a LTR. A gentlemen I have been talking to is recently seperated and going through the divorce process himself. He claims it has been over for 2 years now but they are just...
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How can I motivate my husband to get healthy?
(10/07/09)
My husband smokes, eats too much, and doesnt exercise. He wasnt always as big as he is now. I am not less attracted to him, even though sex is different now that he is so large. I love him with all my heart, and I dont want to be a widow by the time...
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Aww whores gone & passing out free samples.
(10/24/09)
i deleted my profile because of a nasty skank on here causing drama but i realized i cant let someone as pathetic as her dictate my life , if you dont like what you read dont look at my profile skank. this is America & i will live my life how i want...
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Grrrr her!
(10/01/09)
I'm dating a man who lives with his exwife. He says he dos it cuz he loves her an there kids an he wants to help them but i hear all around that hes begging her for sex. i dont think i can trust him cuz hes always putting me and everybody down and he...
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How to forget the one you can't have
(09/26/09)
I was divorced this past spring and i met a great guy right off the bat. We agreed not to jump into a relationship since he didn't want to be a 'rebound'. We agreed to date others. After 3 months I found myself having feelings for him. I told him...
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Why do people think I am a prostitute?
(10/04/09)
Are there certian image attributes that cause this? Why can't I get some without that impression?
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Will it really work?
(10/01/09)
I have been seeing this girl for almost a year now and it's mostly an online relationship. We see each other a few times every other week but never enough to be satisfied honestly. She is a single mother so I don't expect a lot but it seems like th...
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One night stand and now this...
(09/25/09)
I just had sex with a woman and now she's pregnanet. She wants to have the baby and I don't. What can I do?
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Why is so hard to trust men ?
(09/24/09)
I'm very much in love , but he isn't. It's obvious.
Yes, I've been screwed over before but after us being together for over a year I can tell he doesn't trust me and from my past that usually means they are the ones you should be mistrusting ? I'd l...
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I have so much to offer
(09/21/09)
I love my Partner deeply and we have been together four five years. I want so bad to marry him but he have none of it. I held up my standards and have played it hard to get to regain his interest an it seams to work but he still won't commit...
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Was this drunken babbling or what?
(09/24/09)
A guy friend was drunk and professed his love to me.
I am not interested.
Should I pretend nothing ever happened and assume he was blacked out or should I talk to him and set the record straight that we are just friends? Because we are friends...
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How can one fit in?
(09/21/09)
At 34 years old, with a semi-career in computers, an affinity for adventure and pleasure, of-the-wall artistic ability and sense of humor, not native of Louisville and a bit wired in a "different kind of way". I find myself trapped in a city where a...
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pop the cherry.
(09/21/09)
I'm 36 and im a virgin because of religious reasons. I don't believe in premarital sex but as I get older I'm not finding anyone who is interested in marrying me. Should I keep holding out and face the possiblity of dying a virgin or should I wait fo...
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bad bad world
(09/21/09)
im sick an tired of how evil the world has gotten. people are nothing but liers and cheats only out for thenselfs. im ready to take the big plunge in to an isolated life style. im reading up on how to survive on very little. nothing is more importent...
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help, my husband is still a boy
(09/21/09)
i'm 43 and my husband is 28...realizing how his immaturity is seriously affecting my happiness. how do i feel like a woman when he is still a boy?
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Should I move on or wait for a miracle?
(09/06/09)
I have been FWB's with a guy for about 5 months. We have a great sex life, and a good friendship. However, and of course naturally, I would like to see things progress past the occasional fuck every now and then.
I don't know if I can see that ha...
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Help! My Friend Is A Ho!
(09/18/09)
There is a chick I recently reconnected with after several years as a friend. After being friends again for a small bit of time I have come to realize she is a drama queen, attention whoring slutty bitch.Now Im trying to make this friendship work but...
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Why do I look different in pictures than in the mirror?
(09/09/09)
I was looking in the mirror the other day and I had just showered, shaved and combed my hair. I thought I looked pretty good so I got my camera and took a picture of myself.
I looked really bad in the picture. I looked unhappy, and my face was di...
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Is internet porno an addiction
(09/12/09)
I met a wonderful man almost 2 years ago we hit it off and were haveing sex very regularly for the first six months of our relationship. I moved in with the promise of Love. The the sex just stopped, cold turkey! He had always told me what a gorgeo...
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Most men are just strange.
(08/31/09)
Why do men mistake kindness for weakness? My male friend has done this at least a dozen times since we starting talking several months ago. When we were speaking either via text or email even phone he would misjudge me without even knowing the facts...
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My husband digs the porn but not my poon.
(09/11/09)
My husband and I stopped sleeping toegther about 2 years ago. He stopped showing me any affection whethr it be emotional or physical when I got pregnant with my second child.
I look good I am skinny. he tells me that he is not in his prime anymore...
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Torn between two men...what do I do?
(09/09/09)
My boyfriend and my best friend hate each other and it's driving me crazy! Every chance my boyfriend gets he puts down my friend and vice versa. I've tried talking to both of them but both refuse to budge an inch!
My boyfriend hates my best friend...
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my lil girl is going in for some major surgery, my family don't get along with my ex and they all want to be there, I'm scared of what might happen i dont know what to do
(09/06/09)
i have been divorced for ab out a year now, my ex has done some bad things, and dont have much to do with my lil girl, she is a special needs child, and is going in to have both of her legs amputated, and since me and my ex split up my family had bee...
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How do you find people on Mojo?
(08/29/09)
Is it just me or is it nearly impossible to find someone on mojo considering the search consists of keywords, and the keywords i put on my page no one else has for some reason. it's a good idea. but the search is completely stupid, if they expect me...
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I am married to a partially crippled man.
(08/14/09)
Ever since he became semi paralyzed 4 years ago we stopped having sex. I recently discovered my husband's nurse who attends to his physiotherapy on a daily basis, mounting him and rocking on his erection.
For some reason, I took it for granted th...
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Impatient boyfriend, intolerant parents. HELP!!!
(08/08/09)
I live at home with parents, and in a relationship, my friend wants me to stay the night, but my parents dont believe in it unless you are married, and that is their rule of the house.
The problem is that its affecting my relationship, because eve...
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Help! My husband is trying to melt me!
(07/28/09)
I want the thermostat at 70, he wants it at 78. He doesn't want to spend the money. What does everyone else keep it on during the summer? I'm burning up!
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why cant i get no play
(07/28/09)
why do guys always expect women to give head and as soon as they get it thats all they want i know im good at it but theres times i need to get off to and im not sayin for him to go down or anything i just need to fuck
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gay or bi, it just doesn't fly
(07/27/09)
I just had a conversation with a guy I had met on mojo. Well it was going fine and we have a lot in common. Until he asked me what i thought about him sucking another guy off! I was shocked! Not trying to cast judgment on him...But how do you respond...
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My wife is BORING. What do I do?
(08/21/09)
I am recently married to a great lady. We have a lot in common and never fight. But to be honest it is sometimes very boring, in normal day things and sexually. She is a wonderful person, but i still feel left wanting more, or maybe something else? I...
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how do i go about dating again?
(08/08/09)
i just got out of a three year relationship, well it's been a few months, and i feel like i don't know how to date anymore.
i know it's like riding a bike, but i'm having a hard time getting back on the thing. do i just go out with people? what ki...
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Should I say anything to my brother?
(08/17/09)
I had sex with one of my brother's friends. We've hung out several times and we're cool. Until the 3rd time we fucked. Then all of a sudden, he 'just wants to be friends'. I feel used, and I know my brother will be pi**ed off at both of us if he find...
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Older guy dating a younger girl?
(08/03/09)
I'm dating a woman in her early 20's. Most of my friends seem to have some huge problem with this and won't stop badgering me about it. They act like I'm going to ruin her life or that she is going to be immature and break my heart.
How should I d...
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do men really want a nice woman who they can respect?
(08/04/09)
when the first thing a man says to your hotbox is lets u know? instead of whats your interests,movies,dinner etc, i know everybody has needs but if u want a nice woman to really get to know,think before u type......................
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Can your job leave you always questioning your relationship?
(07/22/09)
I deal with clients all day long! And sometimes the joys of my job turns into sessions of counsling. Sometime's in one day all I here is how this person was cheated on and how many time's they had been cheated on. And than I think after hearing such...
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Do I stay or should I go?
(07/27/09)
I'm dating this guy that I met off Craigslist in January. We started dating while he was overseas...he is army, and is choosing to go to a state that is halfway across the country for school.
I just got the invite tonight, to move with him, via text...
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Knocked Up! Now What?
(07/25/09)
My ex-boyfriend and I are having a baby. We used to live together in Seattle, but I moved back to Louisville 2 weeks ago after finding out I was pregnant. Before I left we had some long talks about what we were going to do. The plan was for him to...
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Fifteen years later: should we try again?
(07/14/09)
I'm a single mother of a 15 year old boy. I left his father when my son was just one and I was nineteen. I wanted to stay at home with baby while he always ran with his buddies, so I walked out. He's a great father to my son and has always helped me...
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Why is Retaliation so mean?
(06/23/09)
Seriously he's always angry at something or some one. Kick him off this panel and put someone else in charge.
Chill out duder. Try positive thinking.
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Is it time to breakup?
(07/31/09)
So I've been with him for almost 1 1/2 years, things aren't perfect... but, lately, he keeps pushing me away when I'm trying to be affectionate, whether it be cuddling, kissing, or even sex... so, when we are drinking I start punching & hitting him.....
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Is it ok to bang his friend?
(07/22/09)
I've been sleeping with this guy and he's cool and we have fun and I enjoy fucking him but we're not in a committed relationship and he has a super hot friend that I wouldn't mind getting nasty with so is it wrong to just do it?
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Why does he hate me?
(07/16/09)
My man & I got into a big ass fight the other night. It was like 5am and we were at Denny's. Anyways I left him there and went home with some friends. Now he's all pissed and doesn't want to talk to me anymore for leaving him without a ride home. We...
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a flirt or a dog tell me which one am I really
(07/18/09)
Being single at work and anywhere i go i speak to every ladies(female) NEAR AND CLOSE i GREET THEM AND SHOOT THE
breeze with them I always let them know my staus of being single and looking for a dinner /movie date or a hook-up I leave it optional...
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Nothing but ho's out there
(07/01/09)
I'm sick and tired of these women complaining about not being able to find a nice guy. I mean what do they expect? They hang out in bars and fuck around, and have abortions left and right, and cheat and, they still think they deserve a nice guy....
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