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a 48 year old male recently pondered this: on the blacklisting Submit a Question
i received a hotbox and was polite in telling her i was not interested in married women. Now i am blacklisted by her along with over 100 others. Not a big deal but just wondering...like a clean slate
signed, dudeindistress


Jean Valjean
  
A:  Was there a question here?

Are you saying you've been blacklisted 100 times or she has blacklisted 100 people?

At 48 years old don't you think you should be able to write a sentence expressing a coherent thought?

Or maybe she's your first blacklist and you feel that she has treated you unfairly. And my reaction to that is WTF? How often do women NOT treat men unfairly?

They can be arbitrary, capricious, spiteful, and petty. But they have vaginas so they get to do what they want.

In this case, what she wanted to do was take a big ole dump on your head via the blacklist button. But if you are so heartbroken to get a little blacklist then dude you've got bigger issues to deal with.

Move on. Getting your panties in a twist over a blacklist is pathetic and trivial.

Be thankful that she's so upfront about her personality. And by personality I mean being a bitch.

- Jean Valjean


swissmiss
  
A:  Since I have a vagina and I can do what I want, I'm going to ask you where your penis is because it doesn't seem like you have one. That must be why you are wearing panties and they are getting in such a twist.

The best thing to do is to explain your blacklist on your profile, mentioning her by name and explaining the whole story. That way future women will understand your situation and realize that if they blacklist you, you WILL call them out. If they aren't going to play fair, then why should you!!

- swissmiss

member comments      
     Burn   Nov 9, 2009 at 1:21 pm
how should I put this...hmmm. Your whining over a simple black list...how believably pathetic. You should go find your balls man, seriously.
     whatyouget   Nov 9, 2009 at 9:34 am
This skank-tard "SeXyIndIAnAGurL" blacklisted me about 2 years for no reason..and i dont give a fuck because i'm still kickass.
     SingingFire   Nov 8, 2009 at 10:45 am
Taking a blacklist seriously is foolish... Being blacklisted doesn't mean a damn thing other than someone felt the need to have it appear on your profile that you've been blacklisted, or that they want to ignore you. Most of the time, people do it out of spite and just to get a giggle. Letting it get to you gives these assholes the upper hand. So what? Life will go on. Forget about it.
     ChristianMan   Nov 7, 2009 at 6:11 pm
I got blacklisted today by hotchick69 just for responding to her message. Honestly though I have my suspicions that the profile is a fake, and someone's just using it to retaliate against me. I reported that one and another one today as well due to a rude comment that was made to me. People just can't leave things alone.
     Golfy   Nov 7, 2009 at 10:40 am
Gay. Not that there's a problem, but gay.
     **KyMusician**   Nov 7, 2009 at 9:32 am
I wonder if it's the same married bitch that blacklisted me I wasn't interested in her fat nasty ass either
     roadhammer   Nov 7, 2009 at 7:04 am
hell i get blacklisted for just saying hello
     mo   Nov 6, 2009 at 7:25 pm
"like a clean slate" You mean like a tabula rasa? As in, you have absolutely no knowledge even after 48 years of life experience? Well, let me let you in on a little secret, my little unscribed tablet: Blacklists on an innertube site ain't no thang but a chicken wang. You're welcome!
     CrazySexyCool   Nov 6, 2009 at 3:55 pm
I get blacklisted by ppl I tell to F**k off..I dot want them to talk to me anyway
     Urban Sasquatch   Nov 6, 2009 at 3:00 pm
"A 48 year old male recently pondered this" it said at the top. They got it wrong. I felt your menstrual cramps all the way over at my house. That was some harsh mojo, dudette; I recommend industrial strength Midol followed by an evening of ice cream and a Beaches, Terms of Endearment and Steel Magnolias end-of-the-world marathon of vulva-pinched depression. Just remember to use a mirror while you learn to love your vagina by talking to it.
     ~Silly Filly~   Nov 6, 2009 at 11:21 am
Some men where their blacklist like a badge of honor............. or a notch on the bedpost. Man up and don't worry about it seriously.
     RavingLunatic   Nov 6, 2009 at 9:49 am
Who really cares? Seriously... I want to know.
     frogbert   Nov 6, 2009 at 9:22 am
If a married woman was offering you sex, what's the problem?
     ~RawBeanZ~   Nov 6, 2009 at 8:59 am
Blacklisting = Unable to Deal with Reality! I wrote some Dude once to tell him that he had his sex listed as Female, he blacklisted me! Good old Dodgeman61 remained a Bitch just like the ones that use blacklisting instead of common sense ignoring! Otherwise, Children will be Children........
     Dismissed!   Nov 6, 2009 at 7:00 am
OMG!!! The same thing happened to me... well, except mine was a married man.. but you get this idea. I chatted with a guy on here that suggested that Mojo allow a clean slate option to where a blacklist falls off after 30 days for those with say.. 25 or below blacklists.. It's just annoying to know that some scum bucket finds YOU unworthy to talk with, when their the ones cheating on their spouse. Welcome to the club, my friend!
     
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